Hi Hope, I recommend "Love Must Be Tough" and it is not geared for one particular gender. I think that women & men alike should read this. As I recall, some people in the so-called Christian communities were shocked at what Dr. Dobson was saying b/c they had been taught that as a Christian they should continue to live with the S, put up with whatever treatment the S dished out, etc. They were taught that that was "unconditional love". Dr. Dobson did an excellent job at explaining what kind of love is needed.....and necessary in certain cases. I think you would enjoy it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
