Oh good job Cas. Even though you bought nothing, it's still out and about and who knows who you might bump in to?!!

I am planning to take the train up to the city next weekend. I don't know whether or not to call the ex-colleague who's W has just flown back to the UK as a WAW ... I have sent him a few messages of support and [strength] but only get a short response back. He says he's doing OK but someone planted a seed in my mind that he may be afraid that I am hitting on him and now I am paralysed by that thought!! I most certainly am not and would not - he's 10 years my junior and neither of us fancy one another, nor are either of us along the path far enough yet where we would even consider dating anyone!

I don't know whether to call/email him and ask if he would like to meet up, if he is in the city ... what do you think??


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09