Oh Nell, I change day by day. I certainly know now that nc is really an easier path then being in contact. I have decided to give H some time to issue an invite and then when there's none, I'm going to tell him that the 'friendship' does not suit my needs. Hopefully when the business sells 'she' will disappear.
As for the photo, I'm thinking that since it is a work phone or could have been meant for the person who previously had the phone. You could text back and say sorry you sent it to the wrong number.