Wow, Rabbit! Awesome! What can I say? It sounds wonderful! I can understand your frustration and I can see you don't want H to be thinking this is ok for the future. I guess at the moment the patience mantra has to be applied for a short while. It allows him a little space and gives him time to consider his position without being given an ultimatum. Why not put a date on your calendar and do nothing until that date? When you reach the date you can always postpone. It sounds like you are enhancing your communication anyway, so the discussions could just go there naturally.
