Nell, I'm still here but that's my choice and it still feels right at the moment but as soon as I feel it's all over it will be. How long we wait is dependant on so many things. I know H is still with ow but as she is an employee I guess it's a bit tricky anyway. I'm sure they're great friends but it really seems like a convenience thing to me, They don't live together and if H wants to spend time with me or with us as a family he does,,,,,not too concerned about her it seems.
