Not going to post the list. It just made me sad. It was a good idea but made me feel like it's all slipping away.
Mark - Buttercup suggested that you write all the good things about your W but I am suggesting that you do the opposite and write a list of all the things that make you ANGRY about her. (You don't have to post it)!!
My C had me do this last Tuesday and I have noticed a slight difference in how I feel this week - it's just helped me up a notch in validating myself a little more and dispelling some of the misconceptions that I still hold about why I love H so very much (? maybe ?). It doesn't mean that you are letting go, or even being disloyal, it just helps you to reframe the picture and focus on W being a little less on the pedestal that we LBSs put our S upon. Do they deserve that accolade? Write your list and find out!
I don't know that it will work for you and I don't know that this change will be permanent for me. It just got me to thinking and encouraged me to lift my game a little bit. Won't cost you more than half an hour, so isn't it worth a go?!!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
