I don't have any experience of this Mark but I am with you all the way - I can't lie and I won't con my WAH - it's just asking for even more trouble as far as I can elicit.
Seems to me that to tell the truth is the way to go ... you can be mysterious and you can be 'economical' with the truth but that's as far as I am prepared to go.
Did you read Oz's situation? She didn't lie or con but it would appear that she overdid it on the GAL'ing and her H absolutely lost the plot - almost forfeiting her whole DB'ing efforts. Fortunately, she managed to pull it back in the brink of time but it was hairy for a while.
I say that you just hang in there, be true to yourself, affirm your W without agreeing to anything (unless it suits, of course)!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
