Nothing like weight loss to boost your confidence!
Thanks. I feel I owe so many people here for the help they have given (and still do) me. Just hope I can help others. There is so much pain and suffering on these boards.
If you get a chance (I think you already have) I have a friend who is posting here now - shellshockedga. His W just moved out yesterday into an apartment. They will alternate time at their house with their two boys. His W is pretty mixed up right now. And he is doing better, but he has some rough road ahead of him.