Quote: And I was pleased to be able to do something to help out the effort at the beach, after you did so much to prepare the meal, it was the least I could do. H doesn't like how I clean, I don't do it well enough.
I'm sorry Dagny but your H has either been abducted by the Alien mother ship or he is on something. I was shocked at how you managed to clean THAT kichen! Everybody that was there knew how much of a disaster that area was in after 9 hours of cooking and you not only cleaned but I was stunned at how beatiful everything looked. Your H does need a BIG dose of reality, he needs to be alone and appreciate all of what you do. Detach, detach, detach, detach, detach!
Yes, I am a big fan of the tough love, I think that men for the most part relate to this type of schooling. I add myself to this category. Sometimes we men need a hard 4x4 across the head. (I added an extra 2 inches for a possible OW or dumb male friend's advise )
Berto
I believe that dreams are more powerful than facts,that laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death
I was shocked at how you managed to clean THAT kichen! Everybody that was there knew how much of a disaster that area was in after 9 hours of cooking and you not only cleaned but I was stunned at how beatiful everything looked. Your H does need a BIG dose of reality, he needs to be alone and appreciate all of what you do. Detach, detach, detach, detach, detach!
Sometimes we men need a hard 4x4 across the head. (I added an extra 2 inches for a possible OW or dumb male friend's advise 
)
