Your X sounds like she has some growing up to do. And has some bitterness she needs to let go.
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As I tried to do that tonight she basically tells me that the only reason I see my D is to get back at her. I really don't care about my D and only b/c I pay child support and want to feel like I am getting something back for my money do I even get my D.
The response is "X, you don't know what I think. If you want to know, just ask. But, don't assume what I'm thinking."
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X says everyone knows I am a bad person. Negative, rude and the list goes on and on. she says I just try to argue with her. If you don't agree with her she argues with you and says it is all you arguing with her. wow...
So, if everyone knows it, why does she feel the need to tell you something you should already know? She's projecting her view of herself onto you.
Are you negative, rude, etc.? Response is "X, I'm sorry you feel that way." And don't let her bait you into a fight. That's what she wants.
Now, as far as your D is concerned, you are entitled to the visitation schedule you both agreed to. And your D needs to see you. Don't back down on this. The one who suffers will be your D.
