Here it is Friday night, and I still haven't heard anything. Saw D on "My Space" and IM'd her, and she didn't respond. On her Blog, she stated she found her step siblings, which she hadn't seen in 10 years..... Who she "found" was her half sister and brother, who I'd been speaking to for a while now... all she did was find them on my "friends" list. I'm sure her Father knows now, and will destroy any connection we have made.
My D is not the same person, she doesn't respond to me, I feel she is totally under his "control" now, for she doesn't even speak to her own friends anymore, and even her friends have said she has changed, and feel pushed away.... Something Dick is very good at. Of course in the beginning of the summer, she asked her Dad if her boyfriend could come out for a visit, and replied "No". Dick didn't like him because this young man could see right through Dick, almost right away, and Dick didn't like it. It wasn't a few weeks later, she broke up with him.... after dating for well over a year.
Thanks for your thoughts.....
Andabelle, thank you too, it is very kind of you to stop by.
So far, even my attorney's office hasn't heard a word, so the Judge probably didn't even call, just tossed the paperwork out.
You know, it wasn't that long ago, when the kids were supposed to go with Dick's wife, a person they hadn't spent any time with, and ride with her, a person with such severe night blindness, that when she lived here, had to have her exs' drive the children to her house, because she couldn't drive after dark..... sorry, I digress, anyway, they were supposed to ride in a van with her 4 children, (again, my kids didn't know them) and ride from Kansas to California... for a Spring Break vacation. Dick knew full well, D wouldn't go with Jane... he knew about her phone call to D also.... this is how he works a situation.
I was supposed to meet Jane at the Police Station, and just drop off my kids to her. S, understood he needed to go, as it was a court order, but D even though she understood she had to go, didn't want to go with a woman who had told her she could wait to be her Mother, had been so worried about going, she stopped eating days before. When I arrived at the Station, S got out and went to the van, but D stayed in the car, saying no, she wasn't going. Thankfully, I had a called for a Police escort, mainly to document the truth, and he and I talk to D and explain to her it was a court order, and she needed to go. The Officer listened to D, and understood she was afraid. I got out of the car to lead her out of the car, and the Officer said, "No, you can't pull her out of the car, she needs to exit the vehicle on her own. I sat back down in the car. The Officer went to Jane and told her D was too fearful, and wasn't going to make this trip. He then turned to me, and told me to go home, which I did.
The very next morning I receive a call from an old attorney, who was screaming at me for speeding away with D, after dropping off S. He immediately resigned. The next thing I know, is I have a order for contempt.
I went to court, had to get a court ordered attorney. The Officer came with me, with the report in hand. Dick's Attorney was there too, and was very interested in this report. At this time she claimed a sped away with D. I looked at the Officer who motioned me to speak. I looked at the Judge, who then asked where my Attorney was, I told him he had resigned. The Judge said you need an attorney. I told him I had just paid the other Attorney and couldn't afford another one. The Judge then asked me if I'd like to go to jail? I said no, I do not want to go to jail. Then he said I would need a court appointed attorney, and needed to fill out the paperwork. The Judge picked out the Attorney, and said the case would be continued. The Officer looked at me, asked me why I didn't tell the Judge I didn't speed away. I told him I didn't know I could. In that moment, Dick's attorney snuggles up to the officer, plays with his name tag, and asks if she could read what he had in his hand. The Officer said it's public information, I don't see why not. She grabbed the paper and read it, and left taking the report with her. I went to the Police Station with the Officer to get another copy of the report, which I gave to this court appointed Attorney. The report explained everything the way it happened. At the Hearing, the story was retold by Dick's Attorney, as she said I had my ways to make my children listen, and that I should have been able to get D out fo the car. Next I knew, I was in contempt.
Now, here we have Dick, who gave D a new phone, with a new number, who didn't even make an attempt to call me, or anyone else, and kept D in California....
I file for contempt, and it's just blown off.
Can someone make sense of this for me, Please?
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
