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[billclay18]

So I guess she's just feeling like I'm trying to get the upper hand after what she already went through.

A natural reaction on her part. Be careful about the separation agreement, that can easily turn into the final settlement. While I applaud you for being more generous than the state requirement, don't back yourself into a corner that puts you in a financial quagmire. You need to be able to give yourself and your kids a fair and equitable standard of living.