I understand what is going on for you. I had to live with my W for a full month before she moved, watching her pack and get ready to go, and it was tortuous.
You have to think of what is best for you here. You are NOT a loser though, if you just ride the next 2 weeks out as best you can. Friends and family mean well, but don't always give the best advice. Personally, I find it difficult to accept advice from people who do not even have any experience in an area. Has your friend ever been through this???
I sorry to hear of your anniversary on the 15th. I know how hard the day can be. Jenni (EvansMom) - her anniversary was (would have been) on Wednesday also. (Jen - hope you don't mind my saying that!)
Thinking of you, knowing exactly what you are feeling.
