Hi Jackie,

I am really happy there were some smiles on your trip to Disney. I was glad to read that and also that there were some helpful folks around when you needed them.

I do think your H is going to have to move out to figure himself out and that will take you off of the egg shells. But I can't imagine how difficult it is knowing this ahead of time for that long and having him still in the house. At least in my case it all happened real fast.

Going with everyone else here. Detach and take care of Jackie and the kids. Try not to let bitterness or anger come out in your dealings with h but no catering to him either.

{{{{{{{{{Jackie}}}}}}}}}


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"