OK - done. I have emailed re the tribunal and copied H - not forwarded a copy, just c.c'd the email. That sends a message all of it's own as I normally forward and then add an explanation. This time - nothing. Now I wait to see if that brings a response from H.

I don't consider that his other emails really warrant a response and I feel good that I have taken matters in to my own hands - he's irresponsible right now and I have taken control of the one thing that I can! It's a 180 but one that he won't like.

If I change my mind about wanting to contact him, at least I have the drafted email ready - it makes me feel better that I have taken some action and yet still have a card up my sleeve in readiness to play. It does my PMA a bit of good and will get me through the weekend!

Am I right or wrong to have done this??


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09