Oh (((Cas))) - no words from me as I just plain don't know what to say. 3 yrs with ow does seem like an awfully long time and I applaud you hanging out that long.
I'm sorry that you are facing yet more surgery. Will this be the last?
You will know when the time is right and maybe that's what has now allowed you to 'bite the bullet' and send the details to your H.
Do something REALLY nice for yourself today.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
