AND... H just texted me saying he'll take the kids this wknd. We alternate wknds. I thought he asked for an extra day last week to substitute for him not being able to see them because he was out of town last wknd. I didn't hear from him about this wknd so I assumed we were sticking to the schedule... this wknd is mine.

I already made plans with the kids to go visit H's cousin. I told him he should of told me earlier. Well, I can tell he's not happy. Oh, well. I don't think I should change my plans since he didn't communicate with me. I have a life and so do the kids. He won't be able to see them next wknd he said, so he wants to substitute another day next wknd. I've been very cooperative and flexible in the past. Maybe too much.

He wanted to try the suggestion of the C to come sleep over on his wknds and for me to go sleep somewhere else. Guess next chance is in 3 wks. I'm detaching, I'm detaching... Not my fault plans aren't working out.


M40, H39
M17 T20
D13, S12
H moved out 05/09
D filed 1/10