If ur bad, I must be too. A year ago my xh was trying to contact me but I no longer take his calls... {cuz he's a wanker.} He left a message that he'd had a stroke and was facing a long recovery and was probably going to have to quit his career in finance. I didn't call him back. The news didn't exactly make me happy. But I truly didn't care, in fact I enjoyed that he was having a miserable time. And when my friend saw him out recently I asked if he seemed permanently affected physically and she said he seemed normal.... I was nearly disappointed. Whatever came his way, he deserved it. Whatever befalls him, I don't care. So I'm a badass also. Now, what's the cocktail tonight? More fancy martinis?