Is it time to go gucci?

[pearlharbr]

Seriously in my own situation, after the dynamic changes and things start to move in your direction, things plateau a bit, push/pull starts to re-appear, similar issues start to surface again and although the intentions are there to do the right thing, intentions aren't good enough, maybe my expectations are high (but the trick is how do you keep them low) and I'm seriously getting tired of this process and I'm asking myself daily why I'm doing any of this and I can't say my feelings are wrong, they are what they are. Maybe we've changed so much that we start to figure our own value in the equation and the other party doesn't look as good anymore, maybe we don't match up anymore, my perception of things is changing.

I have no preconceived notions about any of this, I know it requires work.

Wow. That's the first time I've seen someone else articulate what I'm feeling. I don't question things every day but I do question whether or not I want this R to make it.

But, what do I want? I don't wanna fall in love, but I want to be romanced?

That makes perfect sense to me. During my single time I said I was giving up relationships, not giving up men! It's not too much to want to have some romance leading up to the roll in the hay. Don't settle for less than that. I know it's harder to find genuine people in LaLaLand, but there must be a few lurking around.

Today H emailed me that he had arrived at his friend's house in France. Told me what they had been doing.

Don't understand why H is doing this. I don't think it is just practical because he didn't give me a phone number where he could be reached for something urgent.

I didn't reply to his last email and I don't see any reason to reply to this one. Anyone see it differently?

He's trying to find out what you're up to. You didn't provide him with the details he was seeking last time so he's trying again. Agree with robx, do not respond. His curiosity will grow.