I don't want to be in her blast zone when that happens.
I do, I want a lawn chair and popcorn...but then again I'd "Strangers on a Train" for FIB and not even need anything in return.
FIB good insight on why she is what she is...but man please do not let any pity ride shotgun on any decision you have to make regarding her...Later if Miss Head so far up her a ss she tastes cerebral fluids...starts showing sings of regrets...fine...pity away. But not now.
Things are on their way to be better for you.
Something I want you to ponder.
You see this as half the time with your kids... I see this as 100% of the kids time without her.
I think my formula is better. : ) but then...that's me.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 10/02/0905:52 PM.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
I don't want to be in her blast zone when that happens.
I do, I want a lawn chair and popcorn...but then again I'd "Strangers on a Train" for FIB and not even need anything in return.
FIB good insight on why she is what she is...but man please do not let any pity ride shotgun on any decision you have to make regarding her...Later if Miss Head so far up her a ss she tastes cerebral fluids...starts showing sings of regrets...fine...pity away. But not now.
Things are on their way to be better for you.
Something I want you to ponder.
You see this as half the time with your kids... I see this as 100% of the kids time without her.
I think my formula is better. : ) but then...that's me.
Yes Jack, it'd be interesting to watch but only from a safe distance. And btw, I'm going skydiving for my B-day... Very excited but promised not to sign anything until after I get a new life insurance policy, per H's request. (Hey...better not let him pack the chute...) anyhow, I did miss the dinner in NYC but told you guys h was not nearly as enlightened as I expected back then...but then I was not DBing as well then either.
Let us know the countdown FIB, so that New Year's will be relatively meaningless by comparison...no popcorn though. This will certainly call for some bubbly and a fine cheese and caviar (okay, I hate caviar but I do like cheese and champagne and fruit all together....is this kosher? Have no idea. See FIB, that's the problem with some religions. I want to eat whatever I want...it's a strong theological argument, don't you think? I live by it.)
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
I just got my son a worst case disaster book that had a section on how to survive if your primary chute does not open. You first should try the reserve chute. If that fails, look around to see if there are any other skydivers near you and try to glide over and grab hold of them. If all else fails, spread your arms and legs to help slow your descent and try to position yourself so that you land going down a hill or a tree so as to break your fall. A little prayer may help also.
geez, I like Kerry's advice better than Jack's. IF I think the chute really isn't going to open and I can't glom onto someone else, or open a reserve chute, (or take time to revise my will or blame someone) I think I'd go for the beautiful dive and enjoy the ride down. No curling up in a ball, where's the fun/view in that? Plus I read somewhere that a woman actually survived, in a meaningful way (as in, she can do more than drink from a cup now) I mean, by falling into a huge pile of hay/manure...hey, whatever works.
When I was in the Army during the first Gulf War, I used to think if worse came to worse, 1) I did not want to be maimed or disfigured--priorities gentlemen, priorities...AND 2) I didn't want to die a wimpy death...better to go down in flames and take a few wackos with me, then whine in the corner til death arrives. I'll see how that applies to this...
Oh, wait, what are we talking about? Oh that's right, me. Sorry FIB...back to you...
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
You see this as half the time with your kids... I see this as 100% of the kids time without her.
Bingo Jack.You sound like a combo of my atty and IC.
D6 is admitted to the hospital for 1-2 days of testing....24 hour EEG. She then has an MRI on Thursday.
FOR THE FIRST TIME IN NEARLY 2 YEARS, STBXW IS TALKING ME NORMALLY.
If ANYONE even WHISPERS babysteps............
K'POW
BLAMMM
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FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Why even mention it? That thought doesn't exist in some rainbowbrite corner of your mind where gumdrop trees, chocolate fairies and candy mountains exist does it?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
Very excited but promised not to sign anything until after I get a new life insurance policy, per H's request. (Hey...better not let him pack the chute...) anyhow, I did miss the dinner in NYC but told you guys h was not nearly as enlightened as I expected back then...but then I was not DBing as well then either.