So many of us don't get by this site any longer, but I'm thinking about you and your D. It should be nearing the end and I hope all works out. Just remember that there are no winners in a divorce. It's a lose-lose situation. The only thing we can do is protect ourselves as best we can. Then we have to proceed with what we have left.
From what I've read, you seem to be transitioning well. I hope that keeps you grounded.
