Is it time to go gucci?

[pearlharbr]

True for me but what to do now?

And don't even say beat out the younger, hotter, richer, more available girlfriend...(unless you have a how with that)...;)

IMHO, don't try to beat out the OW. I tried the whole "be the better option" thing and it just didn't work for me. In the end I decided if the whore wants him then she can have him. If she's willing to steal a man and settle for a man who cheats on his partner then she's got big problems of her own. And I deserve better. And Dudess deserves better. And AAK deserves better.

I understand that people are here to save their marriages but I also believe that not all marriages are worth saving. I fall into the camp of save yourself first and whatever happens after that is gravy.