Quote: I know him moving out looks bad right now but maybe it will be a good thing.
I agree. I don't know if I could have done what I did to turn myself around if H would have stayed at home vs. moving in with OW. Believe me it was awful for awhile, but it gave me so much free time to be just me, to soul search, and to think and to really focus on ME and our son. I am so much more relaxed that if H does come back I don't ever want to lose that relaxed feeling or go back to walking on eggshells.
It'll be hard, but it does get easier, I know I've been there. AND, things are turning around for the better ever so slowly.
