Basically Dudess wants her H to want her for her and she wants to know it & feel it. What I said is does he know he's wanted by Dudess.
All this backing up, non-pursuit, may create some mystery but is it showing anyone that they are wanted?
Showing him that I wanted him got me nowhere. If my suspicions are correct, my H cancelled our planned vacation so he could try again with a woman he pursued, and was rejected by for YEARS.
