..I do want a mutually rewarding relationship, but I sure wouldn't want to say the stuff you quoted. I got bored just reading it. tiredI don't want a relationship that puts me to sleep and feels more like work than fun.
Donald Trump had a good quote.
Marriage should be easy. I work all day. I shouldn't have to work at marriage when I get home.
He's been married three times. The point is marriage is work. I had a fantasy/unrealistic expectation of our marriage. That I would love her so much, she'd be blissfully happy and we would ride off into the sunset.
When things started to go wrong, I'd alternate between trying harder, and withdrawing because of hurt and confusion. I mean, I love her so much, why isn't like the fairytale?
It wasn't until the S that I saw my expectations were going to be hard for her to match. I just wore her down over the years.
If we can find our way back to each other, I'm ready to work at it every day. Relationships based just on fun are called affairs.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
