Coach, I just finsihed reading the first 2 or three threads of your experience and am glad I now have the knowledge of what you went through. I do have one question, when your W moved out you offered to help. Did you ever go to her place to visit etc..? I was adament about not helping and wonder if I made a mistake there?
SSGA. When she first left she had a furnished house. Then she moved around the corner to a house, I really don't remember. I don't think helping our not makes a big difference. I never went to visit at her place except to pick-up or drop off the kids. It was very hard for me to be detached there.
Very important you stay busy. More so when you don't have the boys.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
