I asked W for a copy of our separation agreement today so that I could share it with my attorney. I mentioned it as can you do me a favor on my way out the door to take D14 to a doctor's appointment this a.m. I signed and notarized the agreement but never had a copy. I guess that tells you what my state of mind was.
Anyway, she hit me with a text almost immediately:
That was an a$$hole thing to do. Do you intend to file for Divorce now? Try to [censored] me over again?! I was trying to keep this peaceful but we can do it your way.
So i reminded her that I love her and wasn't the one wanting a divorce and was just trying to protect myself (not the greatest choice of words by me )
She wrote that she never tried to hurt me or take advantage of me. I screwed her and she still didn't try to screw me. She resents all of this and our attorneys can talk.
Not hard to imagine why she hates me, is hurt and doesn't trust me. It's a tough line to walk trying to figure a path forward.
Anyway, this is about the time one year ago when everything went down....my leaving, etc. Yuck!
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
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