All I really can do to fight her is over material things. I will put in my response what I think is right and she will have to accept or decline. There really is no way for me to fight it. So when I meet with L this week we will discuss what is fair. May just take us into mediation later or end up in court or she can just sign away if she wants it over in a hurry.
One of my areas of personal growth- Choosing my words carefully. This is a good place to practice. I know that people interchange Fighting/Arguing/Negotiating. What word we pick is important. The divorce is a process of negotiating that may lead to arguments that may proceed to fights.
Anyway, setting intentions is important. "I intend to have a XYZ relationship with MsR2C". XYZ can be civil, loving, etc....The solutions in DR keep us moving in the proper direction to reach our goals.....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
