Quote: I haven't tried to get a hold of my W the last couple of days....it would turn into me begging her not to do this. First, good job on "letting her be". Let her miss you.
Well I slipped on that one. Yesterday I sent her a good luck text on her 10 mile race this weekend. And today I sent her a text telling how our crazy neighbor came over to tell me that I don't play fetch enough with my dogs.
Other than that nothing. It wasn't pressuring just trying to make some contact. I didn't hear back on either one.
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"What you resist, persists."-- Any reason to fight her? She does not want to be controlled
All I really can do to fight her is over material things. I will put in my response what I think is right and she will have to accept or decline. There really is no way for me to fight it. So when I meet with L this week we will discuss what is fair. May just take us into mediation later or end up in court or she can just sign away if she wants it over in a hurry. Of course I don't think she is going to like paying me alimony.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33
