I haven't tried to get a hold of my W the last couple of days....it would turn into me begging her not to do this.
First, good job on "letting her be". Let her miss you.
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... just want to give up and not fight her on the D. If I don't fight her it will be over for good.
"What you resist, persists."-- Any reason to fight her? She does not want to be controlled.
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Pretty much just feeling bad for myself and the loss of what should be something good.
It is OK to feel these feelings and morn the loss of the R. Just do it away from her. Crying is a great release. Feeling the pain allows you to feel happy. When around her and others project happiness, confidence, and all those other characteristics that people find attractive. Show her what she will be losing by continuing down her path.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
