My take, BBJ, on the "friendly divorce" thing like Demi and Bruce is that you just aren't there yet. Dan still needs to get help with his depression/sex addiction/misogynist tendencies and he has the perfect life now.
He has his kids, his farm, his own place, freedom to get his "needs" met anywhere he wants and hey, if he wants a family/BBjo fix, she is right there. You are doing all the work fairly dividing things up. Organizing the kids around his time.... I can't believe you joined him for dinner last night. ARGH. This needs to be YOUR choice again. YOUR rules. He absolutely believes he has you wrapped around his little finger because he DOES. He will never change until it hurts more to stay the same than to change..........
Drop the rope girl... just for a while... he is NOT your friend sweetie. Not yet.
