Our 13th anniversary was in July. H invited me to dinner. At first, I said yes - that will be strange but sure why not. Then I though about it and talked to my IC about it. She said I would be heartbroken to go out and "celebrate" a marriage that was nothing more than a piece of paper at this point. OUCH. So I decided not to go out with him. Instead, a friend gave me a spa day and I did that (and then cried very loudly at my mom's house for about an hour). Nevertheless, I think had I gone with him it would have been BIG OLE FALSE HOPE CITY had we had a good time and VERY VERY BAD had we not had a good time.
HIW M 35 H 37 D 5, D 2 Married 1996 Dating 1992 Met 1988 EA/PA started March 2009 Bomb 6/16/2009 Separated 6/23/2009
