Wanted to chime in real quick about family time. I initiated something like that a few weeks ago. Not sure if it was a good thing or not but the girls are enjoying it. I don't know in your case at the moment if it would seem like pursuing or not. But, for me, it was purely for the benefit of my children so I didn't really care how it came across. We've been doing things every Saturday day. Nothing crazy, just a few hours in the morning before naps. Street fairs, outdoor events, stuff like that. So far so good. I always try to be happy (even faking it if need be) during those family outings.
Me 37 H 41 2-dd's (2,3) T-14 M-10 D-Day 6/18/09 (MOW ended their brief "love" affair a few weeks later) Separated- 7/3/09