We really have separated out all the finances and debts. I am not responsible for his, he is not responsible for mine. No joint bank account, nada.
The bankruptcy is really the only joint thing we have, and unfortunately that is reviewed through the Federal Court system, so there is really not much I can do about that, except what I did was make damned sure that the attorney knows I am not paying for Andy's portion.
In the meantime, because I moved to New York State, I have to wait two years before I can file for a divorce here. But...I think what I may do is file it in Texas, and if I have to I will just fly down there for the final hearing and get it done myself. Screw this, it is too much of a pain in the behind to depend on him do to anything.
Although I did give him until the end of this month, and there is another part of me, that sadistic part, that is actually enjoying see him fail. I am not sure if that is a good thing, but I am also enjoying just rubbing his nose in it a little bit.
'M I bad?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..