W saying she never really loved me...no connection...doesn't work on our M because she doesn't think anything will change, etc.
I heard the "She never really loved me" speech a couple of times. That hurt, but then I thought back and remembered the look on her face when we were together at the beginning. The times we were there for each other when parents died. The birth of our two daughters.
The love was there. Now, as it says I think in DR she's built a wall inside her to keep those feelings away and pretend they never existed.
It's going to take a lot of time -- and perhaps luck -- for her to knock down the wall. You can't do it.
It may not happen until after a D or very close to the culmination of a D.
The waiting is what is most frustrating.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
