Watch the pursuit. You can't force her to do marriage exercises if she doesn't want to. You can't chase her down and catch her. If she wants to go out, she goes out - get a babysitter and go out yourself.

Focus on yourself.

What do you have to do to ensure and assure yourself that if your W d's you, you will be OK and will continue on living a happy, fulfilling, love-filled life?

Face the fear.

Detach.

Last edited by Thinker; 10/02/09 06:09 PM.
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M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08
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