OK folks, can't go without posting my intended response to H - comments please (I feel that the tone is right but it may be a bit too long). Also, advice on names - H has started to sign off with his name but has only used mine once. Do I do the same or just nothing ... ?? Also, what's my closing comment ... "talk soon" ??
I have thought about this one overnight and I feel that it might be better to reschedule the tribunal. I could evidently handle it alone but the possibility of having us both there for the 'final hearing' may go in our favour as our position would appear stronger. I would appreciate it if you would contact them on Monday and ask for a postponement. Another factor is that I now have a very heavy caseload at work and am not sure that I would be able to get the day off as my contract has been extended until the end of that week (16 October).
I apologise for my behavior on the telephone. I panicked when I saw the water gushing and when I learned you weren't available to help, I said some things that I later regretted.
I am fine thank you and so are the cats.
I hope that you have a good time in Sydney and that the induction goes well. I'm pleased that work appears to be getting a bit more interesting for you - I know how dispondent you have become with your career over the past year or so. Perhaps this will help?
Meanwhile, P is back from Hong Kong - has bought four new 'travelling shirts' and has put a good offer in on a new house. He's keen to pursue it until he wins, working off the "bid big for better" rather than "right price gets something that no-one else wanted" mentality. Can't blame him.
Current news is that we are planning a trip over to see a friend on the Gold Coast for a much needed break - can't wait to ride some of those rollercoasters - I know, that's ME talking!! Not sure about popping in on the Polar Bears though - would love to see that artificial habitat but might ruin a few great memories of the real thing. Still, time to consider ... !
Very good tone Nell.
On the names question, he has started to sign off with his name so maybe you could do the same. You are being no colder nor warmer than he.
You might want to consider responding to his question re: the water. It is his house too so that could be considered a business issue.
Possibly think about not saying so much about current events. Like about his work just leave it at "I hope that you have a good time in Sydney and that the induction goes well." it's pleasant, but not overly interested.
Do you want to give him that much infor about your upcoming trip? Consider the benefits of a bit more mystery in deciding.
