Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

etrain,

You can make it.

Yes, I felt the same as I expect you feel - pain, fear, loss, fear, shock, fear, shame, fear.

Things were going very bad very quickly.

I was trying to hang on - pursuing for all I was worth.

In fact my W did suggest both S and D on a number of occasions, and the first times really threw me for a spin.

It takes time. You can do it, but you have to go through the process yourself.