I answered some on the other thread. If your husband was the one that had come here initially, doing what he's doing now is close to what I'd advise him...don't jump back in with you until you've shown signs that you are willing to fix the previous mistakes and win him back. Don't you want him more now that you can't have him? You need to focus on making your life as fulfilling as possible without him. Be happy with your life even though he isn't with you. Look good. Smell good. Don't hang on his every word, but give little doses of you each time you are around. Let him see what he's missing...without making it apparent that your his for the asking. Talk to the other parents that are at soccer also. Be chipper and outgoing. If it wasn't for this previous affair I'd suggest talking to the guys at the game, but you want his trust, not thinking you are still capable of cheating. You can give guys a little attention though. I just don't get the sense that he's through with you. I'm completely over my first wife and it's uncomfortable for me even to say hi. Dress sexy next time...see if he pays you any more attention.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
