Trying to save my M. W not really trying though.

[etrain]

Thinking about sending my W a quick email asking how she's doing today but I'm so confused that I'm second guessing everything.
She said she likes affection so maybe that would be a nice little gesture. Or should I be giving her space & waiting for her to come to me instead?
I don't know what to do.

I'm really feeling that this weekend will be crucial. My W actually stayed home last night. We had our S's soccer game so I'm sure that's part of the reason. We got along at the game, had dinner & watched TV together afterward. Laughed a little while watching/discussing our shows. Sure, it wasn't romantic but at least she was more friendly.

Now comes the test. I'm waiting to see if she comes up with a reason to leave the house tonight. If she doesn't, I'm thinking about asking if she wants to do some of the exercises in the "marriage book" she promised the counselor she would try. That could backfire horribly...but we have to try something.

Tomorrow, I'm taking my S to my college's Homecoming football game, where I'm meeting up with some old college friends. (GAL'ing) I've already told my W that she's welcome to come along...she hasn't told me yet if she's coming.

So...will she stay put tonight? If so, will she agree to try the marriage exercises? Will she decide to attend the game with me tomorrow?
Am I stressed out about all of this? Sure I am.