My problem is the weekends, both when I have my kids and when I don't. During the week I have plenty to keep me busy. It's the weekends that are hell.
When I don't have them, I'm trying to fill the time and remembering how nice it was to have a family around to always keep things hopping.
When I have them, we have plenty of fun, but I haven't been able to keep myself from wondering what W is doing. I have the LBS problem of imagining she's having all this tremendous fun without me.
Ya, I have the exact same problem. The weekends were hopping when we were together because we all did things with the family that no longer includes me and we did stuff with the girls together. W was good at planning stuff. A lot of times it costed more money than I was comfortable with, but we did it none the less. She has quite the life going on right now when she doesn't have the kids. She goes shooting, boating with people that own boats, plays poker, hangs with family and friends.
It is hard for me to think of something that I could afford, would interest me, and that she would find interesting as I would want to bring something to the table that she thinks is pretty neat also.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
