EB, i have the same issue with my WAW and her GF. In my opinion irts one of the reasons she left. The amount of time she spends on FB and txtng her GF is unreal. I have learned to just turn away when she does it. In my opinion, FB is one of the worst things that has happend to our M - or what is currently our M.
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
So 180 on FB, like Smiley says "embrace the suck."
Get your own page, make lots of friends, update it with PMA, send notes to her, be on it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
EB, forgive me for hijacking, I promise to move this back to my thread, but Coach, I think I can benefot greatly from opinion here. Are you suggesting using FB (which I do have a page and she is on it) as an indirect form of communication to her? OR using it to directly communicate with her.
She left this morning and I have the boys for the next week. Certainly would't mind her knowing that we are doing just fine without her, but without making it too obvious.
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
Both look like ways we could play scrabble or other games online - I think we just both sign up, give each other our screen names (or emails) and invite each other to a game.
Cool Hope. I'll check these out this evening. I'm feeling really weird this past 24 hrs and I can't focus well right now. It's hard watching W "act as if" and be so detached when I am fully aware she is making moving plans.
I am cycling emotions and wonder why I still care and how she doesn't. Especially after all of the affection recently.
I'm kind of a mess.
I think I'm going to bow out of Toy Story this afternoon. It's too hard to be roommates.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
EB. I am sorry. Did you already tell your son you were going to go? If you did, you may not want to bail. I doubt you would want to dissappoint him. It's a movie, not like you were going to interact much with W anyway. You could tell her that you have something to do right afterward and drive seperately. Go to a bar and watch a football game. I did that the weekend my W started moving things into her apartment. I got all dressed up went to a bar watched a football game and talked to the bartender all night. If you tell them your W just left you, you may just get a few free shots of whiskey (I got a few).
