Thinker...I see that your sitch has been going on for almost a year & I applaud you for sticking with things.

My M seems to be following a similar path as yours...W saying she never really loved me...no connection...doesn't work on our M because she doesn't think anything will change, etc. It's only been a month since I got the bomb dropped on me. I honestly don't know if we'll make it another day, let alone almost a year. I'm half expecting her to suggest a S or file for D every time I talk to her. Is that how you initially felt?


Me-39
W-31
S-4
Bomb- 9/5/09
Discovered EA- 9/15/09
Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09
W moved out 10/31/09