Funny you say that, I was with friends but they have wives and GF's, we were racing at the dragstrip for the et finals. Lo and behold we, or the women, needed to make some trips to Walmart etc. Mostly for ice and a few items to get through all the rain delays. Good thing there was enough beer, lol.
Didn't notice the tulips but I did hear of a big traffic jam because of the outlet mall sales. I'll take the rain at the track, beer in hand!
cire
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
Subj: YOUR HUT IS ON FIRE >> With all that is going on in our lives at this time, I'm >> sure at times we all feel a little like this. Read all the way to the >> end. >> >> The only survivor of a shipwreck was washed up on a >> small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him. >> Every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming. >> >> Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut >> out of driftwood to protect him from the elements, and to store his few >> possessions. >> >> One day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to >> find his little hut in flames, with smoke rolling up to the sky. He felt >> the worst had happened, and everything was lost. He was stunned with >> disbelief, grief, and anger. He cried out, 'God! How could you do this to >> me?' >> >> Early the next day, he was awakened by the sound of a >> ship approaching the island! It had come to rescue him! 'How did you know >> I was here?' asked the weary man of his rescuers. 'We saw your smoke >> signal,' they replied. >> >> The Moral of This Story: >> >> It's easy to get discouraged when things are going badly, >> but we shouldn't lose heart, because God is at work in our lives, even in >> the midst of our pain and suffering. Remember that the next time your >> little hut seems to be burning to the ground, it just may be a smoke >> signal that summons the Grace of God. >> >> P.S. You may want to consider passing this on, because >> you never know who feels as if their hut is on fire today. >> >> "If you can't be grateful for what God has given you, >> look around you and be grateful for what He's protected you from."
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
A pastor's wife was expecting a baby, so he stood before the congregation and asked for a raise.. After much discussion, they passed a rule that whenever the preacher's family expanded, so would his paycheck.
After 6 children, this started to get expensive and the congregation decided to hold another meeting to discuss the preacher's expanding salary. A great deal of yelling and inner bickering ensued, as to how much the clergyman's additional children were costing the church, and how much more it could potentially cost.
After listening to them for about an hour, the pastor rose from his chair and spoke, 'Children are a gift from God, and we will take as many gifts as He gives us. Silence fell on the congregation.
In the back pew, a little old lady struggled to stand, and finally said in her frail voice, 'Rain is also a gift from God, but when we get too much of it, we wear rubbers.'
The entire congregation said, 'Amen.'
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
A TOUGH OLD COWBOY FROM WYOMING COUNSELED HIS GRANDSON THAT IF HE WANTED TO LIVE A LONG LIFE, THE SECRET WAS TO SPRINKLE A PINCH OF GUN POWDER ON HIS OATMEAL EVERY MORNING.
HE DID THIS RELIGIOUSLY TO THE AGE OF 103 WHEN HE DIED.
HE LEFT BEHIND 14 CHILDREN, 30 GRANDCHILDREN, 45 GREAT-GRANDCHILDREN, 25 GREAT-GREAT-GRANDCHILDREN, AND A 15-FOOT HOLE WHERE THE CREMATORIUM USED TO BE.
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
I think it's time to 'change up'...if ya know what I mean podner. Follow KerryK's advice.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Living the emotional rollercoaster this past month. The contact with the GF got better and she even led me to believe things might be changed for the better. She showed me change and even acknowledged the meth use but assured she had quit. I have been very leary about the truth in this even though she seemed to be holding to her word.
My Dad finally passed on this month with us at home with him. This was very emotionally draining but there was a connection with Dad and I after so much time being the blacksheep. I was able to care for him when it became to difficult for others the last few days. I miss him!
The GF wasn't as available to me during this time as I would have hoped which made me become skeptical about her sincerity. I believe love is in her heart as is mine but the drug is pulling harder. I did find out 5 days ago or so that she's still using. No contact since thursday.
As the title of this thread says, a line and a boundary had to be drawn. I am saddended by this but I wont be with someone using. She needs help and I am beginning to believe the only way this may happen is if she gets arrested. Hate to say it but I hope it happens.
On a happier note, my youngest passed his drivers test on friday. Good for him, he got a 98%!
Adding to the stress of October my landlord needed to sell the house i'm in and the buyers wanted me to stay till spring. Well they changed there mind while I was out of town and when I got back my Dad needed to be cared for. Needless to say this put added pressure to everything. I am moved out for the most part only needing one more trip and a few hours. I haven't been able to find a place as of yet so I stay with Mom or friends.
feelings throughout the day it is up and down!!
Keeping my hope and faith...
cire
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
> >> The Secret > >> One day, one friend asked another, > >> 'How is it that you are always so happy? > >> You have so much energy, > >> and you never seem to get down.' > >> > > >> > >> With her eyes smiling, she said, > >> 'I know the Secret!' > >> 'What secret is that?' > >> To which she replied, > >> 'I'll tell you all about it, > >> but you have to promise to > >> share the Secret with others.' > >>
> >> 'The Secret is this: > >> I have learned there is little I can do > >> in my life that will make me truly happy. > >> I must depend on God to make > >> me happy and to meet my needs. > >> When a need arises in my life, > >> I have to trust God to supply > >> according to HIS riches. > >> I have learned most of the time > >> I don't need half of what I think I do. > >> He has never let me down. > >> Since I learned that 'Secret', I am happy.' > >> > >> > >> > >> The questioner's first thought was, > >> 'That's too simple!' > >> But upon reflecting over her own life > >> she recalled how she thought a bigger house > >> would make her happy, but it didn't! > >> She thought a better paying job > >> would make her happy, but it hadn't.. > >> When did she realize her greatest happiness? > >> Sitting on the floor with her grandchildren, > >> playing games, eating pizza or reading a story, > >> a simple gift from God. > >> > >> > >> > >> Now you know it too! > >> We can't depend on people to make us happy. > >> Only GOD in His infinite wisdom can do that. > >> Trust HIM! > >> And now I pass the Secret on to you! > >> So once you get it, what will you do? > >> > >> > >> > >> YOU have to tell someone the Secret, too! > >> That GOD in His wisdom will take care of YOU! > >> But it's not really a secret... > >> We just have to believe it and do it... > >> Really trust God! > >> > >> > >> > >> Just Pass It On!? > >> > >> Do your best; let God do the rest. > >> >>
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..