1. Get all the housework done - this way I don't have to do it while kids are around (except for their chores) 2. Select one project to catch up - i.e. replacing blinds. 3. Play pool with buddies 4. Schedule friends over for the Buckeyes game on Saturday 5. Call my Mom and Dad - make sure my family ties are tight and good. 6. Checked out books from the library - nothing like lying back on the recliner, and getting lost in a good book. 7. Finding interesting topics to study Biblically - the Bible is an amazing source of history, and getting lost in God's word just can't hurt... 8. Talk about feelings with a trusted friend - one who knows my situation, cares for me, and understands me. 9. Signed up S7 for basketball.
Monday - I play basketball with community group on one night off Tuesday - band practice, or "guy's night out, usually pool, bowling, cards, etc Wednesday - kids, chores, small group from church Thursdays - designated cleaning/project day Friday - kids - movie or pizza or theater, their choice Saturday - football, kids with friends Sunday - church, lunch with friends/family
As you can see, I am busy, fulfilled, and happy, and I don't spend much money. I love the "new family" I am building with my kids. We feel like a unit now, just the three of us, and whether W had a good day or week or not doesn't matter.
What is your schedule like? You don't necessarily have to fill EVERY empty gap, again a good book and a recliner is awesome.
