Mrs. Thinker and I had to go to a wake for an acquaintance tonight - a relative of a friend had passed away.
As we left, we both commented on how fun and lively the atmosphere had been when compared to post death visitations we had been to in the past. She joked, "Can I throw a party with our friends at your party? You can throw one for mine." to which I replied "sure, get a keg. If you die first should I serve wine or champagne?" Definitely champagne, she replied".
Wait!
Stop!!
Rewind!!!
Did she just make an unintentional plan to spend the rest of our lives together?
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With 8 days to Retro, the atmosphere is light and friendly.
Yep, step 2 - become friends again. Spending time together and shared humor go a long way.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Personally, I have been finding being friendly and friends, but not being lovers, to be REALLY hard - my biggest struggle.
I agree. Not real sure of a lot of things b/c at times, it FEELS normal.
That's Step 3! Rekindle the romance. It's worth the wait.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
