Oh, come one, ignore 100% of what the WAS says, right?
Really, with all of your education and wisdom you take that as a absolute?
I think it is a tool to help you get detached and not hang on every word and action. You have grown up past that point.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.