Hey Jack...
I ain't no wimp!!

71,
in almost every case of MLC there is EA/PA.

The good news is that almost all of the affairs end on their own.

Unfortunately making ultimatums doesn't really help much. MLC'ers don't really care about their spouses feelings because it is all about them.

I do believe in boundaries, especially when children are involved.

I personally don't believe that it is healthy for children to be around the OW/OM or to know anything about them.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.