May I suggest a comedy? Otherwise you may both read into a drama if it relates to M or R's.....laughter is a wonderful bonding experience.
Or a drama that just doesn't go near where you two are. Make sense? And also, if one of her love languages is "gifts" get something tangible too. Doesn't have to be a biggie but one b-day H got me tickets to a show but I recall, (hey, I was younger then!) thinking "what about a GIFT?" Silly now but a lot of women like a "thing" to wear or know they got even though the dang shows cost more. Just a thought. Do you know your w's love languages? If you have no idea what I'm referring to, I highly suggest you read "The Five Love Languages" by Chapman.
A real eye opener for me.
Take care, we're all rooting for you and I agree with what Breakway & Puppy said. It'd be a lot scarier if she were rushing this. But of course it makes you wonder about her commitment. In reality, it probably reflects MORE commitment on her end, to take it slowly. She's not brushing off what the heck happened here, you know?
J-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
