I am right with you Mike. I could never regain the love and trust after someone has done what Kalni and Bobbi Jo's husbands have done. And I apply the same to my own X. But in her case, I would be reminded of her betrayal every time we would make love because I would have to wear protection so as to not get her STD.
But I can understand how Bobbi Jo and Kalni dont have the same perspective as you have right now. Heck, you got a great lady and are living life to the best with minimal bat chit crazy being injected. Just be ready for the eventual loss that the Tide will have this year to either Tennessee, LSU and/or Mississippi.